There are millions of people across the globe is subjected to daily torments of social, emotional, domestic, sexual, etc. Now overcoming the stress and negative impacts of such abuses seems to quite difficult for those who suffer. However, it is a self-initiative that is all you need to overcome the stress and negativity of abuses. Lowered self-esteem and confidence can be regained with no one’s help but your own initiative. Now the journey to boosting your self-esteem starts with identifying that you are being tormented with abuses and you are the victim, since many a time many people actually fail even to realize that they are being subjected to abuses.
- Identifying that you are being subjected and tormented with different or a single type of
- Identify the people around you are emotionally abusive to you. You need to realize a fact that people you are generally manipulative and abusive grow in their abuses and torments even more with time. So, you need to stop denying yourself to accept the fact that you are being abused.
- You need to take strong and concrete decisions to safeguard your positive self-image and self-esteem.
- In an attempt to safeguard your self-esteem, you may have to be hard in your relations. You may need to take stern decisions which may lead to end up your relations as well.
Confront the Abusive Ones
Being shy and introvert, accepting the torments and offensive abuses which come your way, may be from close people and relations weaken your self-esteem. It works strongly to spoil your confidence, self-image and your sense of belief. But taking confronting attitude to stop the abuses, protest against it at least offers you to enhance your self-confidence. You don’t feel to be a victim anymore. The power and courage to protest and confront adverse situations and abuses showcases your inner strength.
Belief in Yourself
Abusive people often tend to be manipulative, overtly self-serving in their statements. However, you need to be precise and logical in your approach of confronting them. You need to belief in whatever you say and do. Do not let their abuses or comments influence you, you need to stick to your perception and belief. This will showcase your power of determination and sense of confidence. If you are unable to recover from your mental turbulence, you need to save yourself and for that you can also seek for professional help.